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Fun and Easy Valentine’s Ideas for Kids

Valentine’s Day is a great holiday to celebrate with kids. My girls love languages are gifts, words of affirmation, physical touch, and quality time, so basically they cover 4 out of 5 of the love languages. If you haven’t heard about love languages check out my blog post on Exploring Love Languages.


Because they have different love languages we do a few things both leading up to Valentine’s Day and on the day itself. Here are just a couple new and old traditions that we partake in to celebrate.

Valentine’s Day Countdown – Make a paper chain, calendar countdown, or think of something creative to count your way down to Valentine’s Day. It doesn’t matter what day you start but here are some ideas of what you and your family can do to count your way down to the 14th.

  • Hug someone in your family
  • Read John 3:16
  • Make a craft with hearts
  • Say one reason you love each member of your family
  • Help cook a family meal or treat in the shape of a heart
  • Look at pictures from past V-days
  • Help someone in need
  • Spend time with another family
  • Invite someone to church
  • Color pictures for extended family members
  • Write a letter to a missionary or military family
  • Make Valentine’s Day cards
  • Decorate your home with words of kindness

Valentine’s Day Tree

We found this Valentine’s Day Tree in the dollar section at Target. It was made for the classroom, but I find a lot of great items that we can use at home are teaching tools or made for school. I love how easy it is to love with words of affirmation and kindness using this simple decoration.


There’s also something similar on Amazon*, and of course you could make your own as well:


Now that I’ve shared a couple of things we do in our home, I would love to hear your ideas for Valentine’s Day. Share how you celebrate by leaving a comment in the comment section below.

Advent Ideas for the Whole Family

I know Advent has already started! I can’t believe it’s December already, not only because it was 70+ degrees here in North Carolina, but also because I don’t feel like it’s time for the end of this year. {Tell me I’m not the only one in this boat.}

In lieu of Advent, one of the most awesomest times of year that we get to celebrate the birth of Jesus and show even more love and kindness to those around us, our family likes to honor advent and count down the days until Christmas with a paper chain filled with fun activities and thoughtful acts as well.

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Here is our list {in no specific order} of things on our Advent chain.

  • Make a gingerbread house
  • Decorate the house {inside/outside}
  • Donate Food to a local food bank/cause
  • Make homemade presents
  • Wrap presents {with Christmas music and snacks of course}
  • Christmas Craft
  • Invite someone to church
  • Watch Christmas Movie {movie marathon or movie night}
  • Have a holiday playdate
  • Make a birthday cake for Jesus and sing Happy Birthday
  • Send Christmas Cards {kids help address, stuff, stamp}
  • Take gifts to civil servants, doctors, etc.
  • Head to our favorite botanical garden {we love Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens}
  • Visit a {live} nativity {we enjoyed Billy Graham Library’s festivities}
  • Read Christmas stories from the Bible and check out some great books our family likes to read.
  • Write a letter to Jesus {and leave it under your tree or read aloud and share as a family}
  • Go caroling with some friends in nearby neighborhoods or Senior Assisted living communities
  • Drive through your neighborhood or a neighborhood that’s known for it’s lights display
  • Make paper snowflakes and then display them
  • Help your child make or purchase gifts for their classmates {we made play dough one year}
  • Help your child make or purchase gifts for their teachers
  • Send a care package to missionaries, {we’re going to send ours to the Yon family}
  • Celebrate St. Nicholas Day, which just so happens to be my birthday. {Believe it or not the real St. Nicholas focused on giving more than receiving and so this day we plan on doing something kind for others}
  • Have a secret Santa with family or friends but instead of giving gifts write thoughtful notes or draw pictures.
  • Have a neighborhood night in {invite neighbors for yummy food and great fellowship}

Again, those are only a few ideas and the ones we’re using this year, it’s easy to find other ideas online as well.


I’d love to hear if you celebrate Advent and how you celebrate it. Also let me know if you decide to use any of these ideas too!!

Matthew 1:21 “She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”


Happy December!

Easy Entertaining Tips for the Holidays

Thank you Swiffer Bissell Steamboost for sponsoring this post.

I don’t know about you, but I love celebrating my holidays surrounded by amazing people I love and care about. Whether it’s a family get together or friends coming over for a night in, or even a holiday pajama party with the kiddos, we enjoy opening our home to others.

While I would love to say I’m a Mary {enjoying the conversation and company}, more often than not, I am a Martha {wanting to make sure everything is in it’s place, clean and neat}. The older I get, the more I realize that the people visiting my home don’t care if I dusted my baseboards or the inside of my oven is sparkling. Of course being me, I want my home to be clean and neat, but it doesn’t need to be sparkling.

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Instead of stressing myself out over cleaning my home, I’ve decided that I’m going to take less time cleaning and more time enjoying my company, but I need to come up with some tips to help me be a good hostess, while achieving this goal.

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Here are some easy entertaining tips for the holidays that I came up with that may help you be a Mary instead of a Martha too.

Bissell Happy Holidays.jpg1. Use cleaning products that will cut my cleaning time and get the job done. 

I recommend the Swiffer Bissell Steamboost, it’s lightweight (so your arms won’t feel like jelly when you are done mopping), easy to put together, and works AMAZINGLY!!! I used this right before a big play date and the floors were sparkling, I could see it removing the gunk from my floors as I used it.

2. Use white dishware and serving dishes. 

Using all white dishware not only allows you to dress up your dishes with ribbon and other table decor without being too much of an eye sore, but it also gives your table a streamline look rather than hodge podge, plus you can use them anytime of year, not just during the holiday they represent.

3. Buy food don’t make it. 

Unless you are hosting a dinner party (and even then you may want to consider some pre-made food items), consider buying snacks and food from the store. Less work and clean-up for you and will limit the amount of tasks on your to-do list before your guests arrive.

4. Tidy, don’t clean.

Remember that your home is probably going to need a cleaning after your guests arrive as well, so spend your time cleaning counters, floors, and moving clutter rather than focusing on the small details. I also highly suggest, moving extra toys or furniture to the garage or another empty room in your home temporarily to help make your home look more clean.

5. Shower and dress after everything is done.

I’ve gotten ready before cleaning and moving furniture before parties and get togethers before and ended up a sweaty mess, so needless to say I’ve learned my lesson and try to save getting myself ready for the party for very last. I also try to get most things ready the night before so I don’t have a lot of big work to do the day of.

So thanks to my tips and tools of the trade, I go from:

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What are your easy entertaining tips?

This is a sponsored post in partnership with Swiffer Bissell Steamboost. Any opinions about the product are my own, honest thoughts. Yours may vary.



Holiday Cleaning in a Time Crunch

Thank you Molly Maid for offering your services for this review.

During the holidays we love to have friends and family visit. We enjoy celebrating and know that our home doesn’t need to be spotless to have quality time together, but being the Type-A momma that I am, I do like a clean house.

When approached by Molly Maid of Central Charlotte and Cabarrus County to try out their services, of course I said yes! {Wouldn’t you???} I’ve always wondered what it would be like to have a cleaning service. When I nannied the families had regular cleaning services, but being a work-at-home mom, I figured that it would at least save me some of the work and time.

I personally had a bunch of questions about what to do before the cleaning, and the professionals at Molly Maid were super helpful giving me these three tips:

1) Would you like your bed linens changed? If so, strip the bed & leave out a set of clean sheets. We will put the new sheets on and make the bed for you!
2) Pick up, don’t clean up! We don’t expect you to clean your home before we come. However, if you can spend about 10 minutes the night before and just straighten up – toys put away, toiletries on bathroom counters organized, kitchen counters free of excess clutter. We understand that you live in your home, and we do not expect it to look like the front of Better Homes & Gardens!
3) Relax. Your home is going to be cleaned, and you don’t have to lift a finger!

I chose to go with the downstairs cleaning for this review because those are the rooms guests regularly see during the holidays. I intentionally left some things a little messier than I normally would {I was itching to clean it before they came, I contained myself}, and put some blankets and pillows on the floor too. I wanted to see what would really get clean, keep in mind this is a review. (I know it’s hard to tell from the pictures but there were definitely areas to clean!)

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Here are a few things I was impressed with:


  • Brittany and Debra were on time and very professional
  • They got a lot of cleaning accomplished in the time they had
  • They vacuumed my couch and loveseat {who knew!!!}
  • My microwave glistened {seriously, like never before}


Things that they could improve:


  • There were a few small areas they didn’t clean well or missed
  • My “thank-you” card smelled strongly of cigarette smoke
  • The one-time cleaning price was a little steep for my budget {although competitive with others in the area}


Overall, I thought the cleaning was good and if I were to hire a regular service I would definitely consider Molly Maid. I think if you are in a pinch for the holidays and really don’t have the time to clean your home then the one-time cleaning service would be well worth it. I always feel stressed when it comes to cooking, cleaning, and getting organized and if there’s one thing I can cross off my list, and I have the funds to do it, that means more time to finish other things and enjoy a clean home.

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Molly Maid of Central Charlotte and Cabarrus County serves the central and north Charlotte area as well as all of Harrisburg, Concord, Kannapolis, and the entire Lake Norman area. Their Home Service Professionals are licensed, bonded, and insured. They offer 100% Customer Satisfaction and have an A+ rating with the BBB.

If you’re ready to set up cleaning services for the holidays or anytime and are in the Central Charlotte, Cabarrus County area call 704-536-MAID or head to MollyMaid.com for a cleaning estimate. 

**For MommyB Knows Best readers, if you complete a one-time service or set up regular cleaning service with Molly Maid of Central Charlotte/Cabarrus County or South Park and mention you heard about them on MommyBKnowsBest.com you will receive a $10 Starbucks gift card!!



I received complimentary services in order to perform this review. The thoughts and opinions are mine as always, however yours may vary.